Visit Insider's homepage for more stories.įor queer people, figuring out whether you like to top, bottom, or switch (also known as 'verses') can be the first step to having a fulfilling and pleasurable sex life.īut sometimes, if you're a top - or person who likes to have a more active role during sex - you may feel pressure to find creative ways to mix up your sex life. Mixing it up in the bedroom can open a new world of sensation for you and your partner. Topping, or taking the more active role during sex, can come with a lot of pressure if you aren't experienced.
